People no matter what amazing advice they give to others when it's time to make a small decision or even a life-altering one they always tend to doubt themselves and seek the help of others...even if it takes some guts to admit it...and even more time to ask for help...a cliche example and a very common one is: drug addicts...they fall down a spiraling staircase leading to hell and when they finally reach rock bottom...they either seek for advice/help to pull themselves back up again ...or just end their misery by overdosing and saying goodbye to what once gave them the will to live...their soul. I'm not saying it ends there...because no one knows what happens after we die...but at least they've freed themselves from the torture their body was providing...you may think i'm not making sense and went completely off topic but the point I was trying to make was that at times you are confronted by many different choices in your life and as you mentioned before we cannot help but think to ourselves:

"What if?"..."If i did this what will happen?"..."But if i decided to do that will it affect me?"...even if they write a book about it and give you detailed steps on how to take every decision based on different factors...there will always be something that happens that is out of your control and will somehow lead to the decision that you make...and whoever said that making no decision is a decision in itself is right...i completely agree...because at times you just don't want to take a decision just yet...you may want to lean back and watch everything unfold in front of you and even then you still wouldn't want to take that decision until further on in life...maybe even in the far future...or never even make it...it all depends on the individual...and personally i feel that taking decisions requires risks...and many people don't want to take the necessary risks to get to somewhere because they don't want to risk a downfall...which, if thought of logically...is pretty normal...conclusion:

Humans are scared little beings...the ones who make a "right" decision with a little bit of luck and a lot of faith (in themselves)...and don't look back and think that it was a mistake are the ones who make it...I guess you could say that they are the ones who inspire the world...if ever I were to make a decision it would either take me a lot of time or take me a split second...it all depends on the mood I'm in, the factors that influence me, the people surrounding me, the environment...i think it all affects us by the end of the day...i would of course make sure that I'm the one who will be happy by the end of the "decision making process"...because if I'm not satisfied then i will keep blaming myself for making the "wrong" decision...yep i guess you could say this whole parameter of making decisions will always remain "unstable"...

For some of you this may be to deep and "emo" but this was written spontaneously...as a response to a note someone had written...just thought i should share it...